So for the first time last week I had to leave my little boy so my partner and I could put up our garden shed before the bad weather came!!
It wasn't too bad as we left him with his Auntie Tarnia (my twin sister and his guardian) and my mom and dad. So I trust them all and they all know his routine etc :) So I was fine..
And I should remember it's not just good for me to get a break as I am with Tyler 24/7 as it is also good for Tyler!! He has to know he doesn't always need me their.
I just feel sometimes, that their is such a "branded" issue about girls being young mom's that we all fall under the same category that we all go out all the time and leave our baby with everyone and anyone! Not meeee! Totally opposite I planned having a baby, I see having Tyler as I should look after him and raise him not others? And I don't think its right to be going out allllll the time.. But maybe that's just me and I'm old fashioned like that... but o well
For other mom's that are worried about leaving their little one, yes it was hard and you feel odd not having them in the car on the way or in the house... but they are ok! You'll be ok ... and its GOOD for both of you!
So enjoy sometime with your partner, even if just for an hour! :) Bake a cake or something!
Love Sara&Tyler
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